I once read somewhere: nothing motivates like success. It is often the desire to succeed, to derive joy from attainment of a goal and the benefits from such achievement that drive individuals to persist and persevere, to toil and tolerate. As a race, we are designed to feel motivated by thinking about the end result. You tell someone they are hired for a job paying them one hundred grand a year and they immediately start visualizing saving or spending that money, they start planning, they start imagining themselves in the office, speaking to co-workers and the rest of it. It is natural. Steadily, these thoughts become part of one's expectations. If what they thought varies greatly from what they actually get, they are disappointed. They set a goal for themselves, the next target and they give themselves a time frame. So far so good.
Whenever embarking on a new venture though, the primary difference between success and failure is the motivation to persist. A winner chooses to carry on. When people ask me questions around meditation, changing their habits, about self-realization and so forth, the one common question I get is: How long will it take? This is my focus today. Let me share a little story with you.
An elderly monk was en route to an ancient temple in the mountains. Traveling on foot, he had been on this pilgrimage for nearly two months now. In the spirit of a monk, he carried with him no possessions except his alms-bowl and a set of robes. He would simply stop whenever he felt like resting and beg for food whenever he was hungry.
One step at a time, he traveled over two thousand kilometers. Finally, the tall mountain with a temple like a crown on its head was visible from a distance. A feeling of relief, a surge of joy, a sense of accomplishment rose up his spine.
A further few steps and he saw an old woman working in the fields. He stopped and said, "How long will it take me to reach the temple at the top of the mountain?"
The old woman turned around to face him, gave him an indifferent stare, shrugged and went back to sowing the seeds in the ground. The monk thought it was highly unusual because he knew most villagers to be warm people. Perhaps the woman did not hear, he thought. Pointing in the direction of the temple, he repeated, "How long will it take me to reach that shrine?"
The woman gave the same reaction again, this time, she softly growled too. The monk asked his question one more time only to get the same response. He concluded that the old woman was deaf. A little disappointed, he resumed walking towards the mountain.
"It'll take you eight hours," a voice yelled from behind. It was the old woman.
Intrigued, the monk walked back to her and said, "I don't get it. I asked you three times and you did not answer me. Now that I was on my way, you called me from behind to tell me the distance."
"I'm not telling you the distance, Master. I'm simply telling you how long will it take you," she spoke, "when you asked me earlier you were standing still. How could have I answered your question without knowing how fast you walk! As for the distance, from here it is twenty miles of trek."
There you are! There is no absolute answer to how long it will take you. It depends on multiple factors and your pace is only one of them. More often than not, it is just about staying course and persisting. We all know the hare and the tortoise classic.
There are essentially four elements that lead to success. They are:
1. Knowledge: Are you well-equipped? Mentally and skill-wise? If not, what do you need to do to acquire it.
2. Approach: Do you have the right mindset and approach? Are you positive, optimistic, ready, flexible?
3. Resources: Do you have the right tools, resources or are you trying to drill a hole in the wall with a spoon?
4. Efforts: Are you putting your best foot forward no matter what?
There is a fifth element. You can call it grace, fate, luck, destiny or anything else you wish. This one manifests when you do not waver. It may appear like a coincidence, a stint of luck or serendipity, but the truth is with the four elements above, you create that perfect moment of realization, of attainment.
Steady and small steps turn into giant strides and leaps ultimately. Tiny drops of water, one after the other, create a waterfall. Buddha did not gain enlightenment just because he sat under the Bodhi tree; he slogged for years before the arrival of that perfect moment, all that learning and struggle culminated to manifest the moment of revelation, of epiphany, before prince Gautama became Buddha.
Go on! give it your best shot. You should be able to look in the mirror and say, "I gave it my best shot and I tried everything I possibly could." When you can say that to yourself honestly, you can have your wildest dreams come true, from material success to divine realization.
From United States, Walnut
8Whenever embarking on a new venture though, the primary difference between success and failure is the motivation to persist. A winner chooses to carry on. When people ask me questions around meditation, changing their habits, about self-realization and so forth, the one common question I get is: How long will it take? This is my focus today. Let me share a little story with you.
An elderly monk was en route to an ancient temple in the mountains. Traveling on foot, he had been on this pilgrimage for nearly two months now. In the spirit of a monk, he carried with him no possessions except his alms-bowl and a set of robes. He would simply stop whenever he felt like resting and beg for food whenever he was hungry.
One step at a time, he traveled over two thousand kilometers. Finally, the tall mountain with a temple like a crown on its head was visible from a distance. A feeling of relief, a surge of joy, a sense of accomplishment rose up his spine.
A further few steps and he saw an old woman working in the fields. He stopped and said, "How long will it take me to reach the temple at the top of the mountain?"
The old woman turned around to face him, gave him an indifferent stare, shrugged and went back to sowing the seeds in the ground. The monk thought it was highly unusual because he knew most villagers to be warm people. Perhaps the woman did not hear, he thought. Pointing in the direction of the temple, he repeated, "How long will it take me to reach that shrine?"
The woman gave the same reaction again, this time, she softly growled too. The monk asked his question one more time only to get the same response. He concluded that the old woman was deaf. A little disappointed, he resumed walking towards the mountain.
"It'll take you eight hours," a voice yelled from behind. It was the old woman.
Intrigued, the monk walked back to her and said, "I don't get it. I asked you three times and you did not answer me. Now that I was on my way, you called me from behind to tell me the distance."
"I'm not telling you the distance, Master. I'm simply telling you how long will it take you," she spoke, "when you asked me earlier you were standing still. How could have I answered your question without knowing how fast you walk! As for the distance, from here it is twenty miles of trek."
There you are! There is no absolute answer to how long it will take you. It depends on multiple factors and your pace is only one of them. More often than not, it is just about staying course and persisting. We all know the hare and the tortoise classic.
There are essentially four elements that lead to success. They are:
1. Knowledge: Are you well-equipped? Mentally and skill-wise? If not, what do you need to do to acquire it.
2. Approach: Do you have the right mindset and approach? Are you positive, optimistic, ready, flexible?
3. Resources: Do you have the right tools, resources or are you trying to drill a hole in the wall with a spoon?
4. Efforts: Are you putting your best foot forward no matter what?
There is a fifth element. You can call it grace, fate, luck, destiny or anything else you wish. This one manifests when you do not waver. It may appear like a coincidence, a stint of luck or serendipity, but the truth is with the four elements above, you create that perfect moment of realization, of attainment.
Steady and small steps turn into giant strides and leaps ultimately. Tiny drops of water, one after the other, create a waterfall. Buddha did not gain enlightenment just because he sat under the Bodhi tree; he slogged for years before the arrival of that perfect moment, all that learning and struggle culminated to manifest the moment of revelation, of epiphany, before prince Gautama became Buddha.
Go on! give it your best shot. You should be able to look in the mirror and say, "I gave it my best shot and I tried everything I possibly could." When you can say that to yourself honestly, you can have your wildest dreams come true, from material success to divine realization.
From United States, Walnut
Hi
That is both and enlightening and interesting sharing. I particularly liked the way the Fifth Element of luck./destiny was included without it forming part of the key requirements for success.
Young professionals in particular going through the post will get a fair insight into how to proceed ahead to attain success. However I would also like to point out that the first paragraph holds the key to success, namely that one must be clear about the GOAL that one seeks to attain. Defining the goal always causes more distress than the process of attaining the goal. More often than not, we end up plunging into the process and ending up disappointed for the goal always seems elusive.
Many of you could get additional inputs to goal setting and attaining success by going through the inputs in the following Inspirational and Motivational blogs
Actspot's Blog
Academy for Creative Training
Regards
From India, Mumbai
That is both and enlightening and interesting sharing. I particularly liked the way the Fifth Element of luck./destiny was included without it forming part of the key requirements for success.
Young professionals in particular going through the post will get a fair insight into how to proceed ahead to attain success. However I would also like to point out that the first paragraph holds the key to success, namely that one must be clear about the GOAL that one seeks to attain. Defining the goal always causes more distress than the process of attaining the goal. More often than not, we end up plunging into the process and ending up disappointed for the goal always seems elusive.
Many of you could get additional inputs to goal setting and attaining success by going through the inputs in the following Inspirational and Motivational blogs
Actspot's Blog
Academy for Creative Training
Regards
From India, Mumbai
Hi Lopus,
It is a very interesting article.
How long would it take, is practically in every one's lips
even for very trivial tasks to be performed.
Impatience and the desire to achieve success quickly,
are perhaps the driving forces behind this question.
In the first Para the thought of success or the ‘desperate will’
to attain success is well brought out.
I prefer to use the "desperate will" to succeed because failure
is nothing but an intermediate station, where we may have to
halt sometimes, on our way to reach ‘success’.
The fifth element is no doubt the surprise pack in the learning.
It was essential for the woman to give her answer.
So from now on, let us not forget the fifth element.
The motivation to attain success may even induce a spirited
last lap run, for people to complete their journey.
V.Raghunathan..................................... ..................... ...........Navi Mumbai
From India
It is a very interesting article.
How long would it take, is practically in every one's lips
even for very trivial tasks to be performed.
Impatience and the desire to achieve success quickly,
are perhaps the driving forces behind this question.
In the first Para the thought of success or the ‘desperate will’
to attain success is well brought out.
I prefer to use the "desperate will" to succeed because failure
is nothing but an intermediate station, where we may have to
halt sometimes, on our way to reach ‘success’.
The fifth element is no doubt the surprise pack in the learning.
It was essential for the woman to give her answer.
So from now on, let us not forget the fifth element.
The motivation to attain success may even induce a spirited
last lap run, for people to complete their journey.
V.Raghunathan..................................... ..................... ...........Navi Mumbai
From India
Hi Lopus The presentation is excellent which made me feel to share this article with all my friends. It is a blend of spiritual and material essense. Thanks
From India, Hyderabad
From India, Hyderabad
Success is not in the hands of boss. Never work to satisfy the boss. Boss never gets satisfied. Your spiritual connectivity is exceptional. Thirst to know puts you in practice, the practice takes you to challenges. Challenges will kindle your creative forces. Devotion and dedication flows into your task. The self is lost in the ocean of involvement and commitment. An inner bliss is felt after attaining the desired out put. People call it success. The experience of divinity in work can not be substituted materialistically.
From India, Bangalore
From India, Bangalore
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