It is beautiful... Love does not bring any commitment. It is just a cause or show of feeling... Marriage is a binding of commitment, responsibility and ownership. Regards Hemamalini.A
From India, Coimbatore
From India, Coimbatore
Very nice vipul.
The teacher said: In order to answer your question, go to the paddy field and choose the biggest paddy and come back.
But the rule is: you can go through them only once and cannot turn back to pick.
The student went to the field, go thru first row, he saw one big paddy, but he wonders….may be there is a bigger one later. Then he saw another bigger one… but may be there is an even bigger one waiting for him.
Later, when he finished more than half of the paddy field, he start to realize that the paddy is not as big as the previous one he saw, he know he has missed the biggest one, and he regretted. So, he ended up went back to the teacher with empty hand.
The teacher told him, this is love… you keep looking for a better one, but when later you realize, you have already miss the person
The student asked: What is marriage then?
The teacher said: In order to answer your question, go to the corn field and choose the biggest corn and come back. But the rule is: you can go through them only once and cannot turn back to pick.
The student went to the corn field, this time he is careful not to repeat the previous mistake, when he reach the middle of the field, he has picked one medium corn that he feel satisfied, and came back to the teacher.
The teacher told him, this time you bring back a corn…. you look for one that is just nice, and you have faith and believe this is the best one you get…. this is marriage
Be courteous to all , but intimate with few , and let those few be well tried before you give them your confidence.
Regards,
Vipul
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From India, Madras
The teacher said: In order to answer your question, go to the paddy field and choose the biggest paddy and come back.
But the rule is: you can go through them only once and cannot turn back to pick.
The student went to the field, go thru first row, he saw one big paddy, but he wonders….may be there is a bigger one later. Then he saw another bigger one… but may be there is an even bigger one waiting for him.
Later, when he finished more than half of the paddy field, he start to realize that the paddy is not as big as the previous one he saw, he know he has missed the biggest one, and he regretted. So, he ended up went back to the teacher with empty hand.
The teacher told him, this is love… you keep looking for a better one, but when later you realize, you have already miss the person
The student asked: What is marriage then?
The teacher said: In order to answer your question, go to the corn field and choose the biggest corn and come back. But the rule is: you can go through them only once and cannot turn back to pick.
The student went to the corn field, this time he is careful not to repeat the previous mistake, when he reach the middle of the field, he has picked one medium corn that he feel satisfied, and came back to the teacher.
The teacher told him, this time you bring back a corn…. you look for one that is just nice, and you have faith and believe this is the best one you get…. this is marriage
Be courteous to all , but intimate with few , and let those few be well tried before you give them your confidence.
Regards,
Vipul
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From India, Madras
gud story... 2nd message from de story is ONLY AFTER (selection) EXPERIENCE (failure) IN LOVE, SELECTION FOR MARRIAGE IS SUCESSFULL
From India, Tiruchchirappalli
18From India, Tiruchchirappalli
Hey Vipul.... So True!!!!! Such anecdotes passed down the line, over the generations certainly have a ring of truth around them yet it takes only a discerning eye to appreciate.
From India, Bahadurgarh
From India, Bahadurgarh
LOVE- Love is made of four letters.All letters have different meanings.
First letter L it means- Loyality
Secend letter O it means - Obidieant
Third letter V it means - Victory &
Fourth letter E it means - Equal
Now, I would like 2 define Love - Love is life, Love is a gift of god, Love is a secret thing, Love is a imagine thing, Love is very deep, we can't imagine it's deepness & Love can not measure at any scale.Our heart wants 2 live always happily & it provides joy 2 our heart, So, Love is a Joyfull thing.
From India, Calcutta
First letter L it means- Loyality
Secend letter O it means - Obidieant
Third letter V it means - Victory &
Fourth letter E it means - Equal
Now, I would like 2 define Love - Love is life, Love is a gift of god, Love is a secret thing, Love is a imagine thing, Love is very deep, we can't imagine it's deepness & Love can not measure at any scale.Our heart wants 2 live always happily & it provides joy 2 our heart, So, Love is a Joyfull thing.
From India, Calcutta
Kahlil Gibran on Love
When love beckons to you, follow him,
Though his ways are hard and steep.
And when his wings enfold you yield to him,
Though the sword hidden among his pinions may wound you.
And when he speaks to you believe in him,
Though his voice may shatter your dreams
as the north wind lays waste the garden.
For even as love crowns you so shall he crucify you. Even as he is for your growth so is he for your pruning.
Even as he ascends to your height and caresses your tenderest branches that quiver in the sun,
So shall he descend to your roots and shake them in their clinging to the earth.
Like sheaves of corn he gathers you unto himself.
He threshes you to make you naked.
He sifts you to free you from your husks.
He grinds you to whiteness.
He kneads you until you are pliant;
And then he assigns you to his sacred fire, that you may become sacred bread for God's sacred feast.
All these things shall love do unto you that you may know the secrets of your heart, and in that knowledge become a fragment of Life's heart.
But if in your fear you would seek only love's peace and love's pleasure,
Then it is better for you that you cover your nakedness and pass out of love's threshing-floor,
Into the seasonless world where you shall laugh, but not all of your laughter, and weep, but not all of your tears.
Love gives naught but itself and takes naught but from itself.
Love possesses not nor would it be possessed;
For love is sufficient unto love.
When you love you should not say, "God is in my heart," but rather, "I am in the heart of God."
And think not you can direct the course of love, for love, if it finds you worthy, directs your course.
Love has no other desire but to fulfill itself.
But if you love and must needs have desires, let these be your desires:
To melt and be like a running brook that sings its melody to the night.
To know the pain of too much tenderness.
To be wounded by your own understanding of love;
And to bleed willingly and joyfully.
To wake at dawn with a winged heart and give thanks for another day of loving;
To rest at the noon hour and meditate love's ecstasy;
To return home at eventide with gratitude;
And then to sleep with a prayer for the beloved in your heart and a song of praise upon your lips.
Kahlil Gibran On Marriage
You were born together, and together you shall be forevermore.
You shall be together when the white wings of death scatter your days.
Ay, you shall be together even in the silent memory of God.
But let there be spaces in your togetherness,
And let the winds of the heavens dance between you.
Love one another, but make not a bond of love:
Let it rather be a moving sea between the shores of your souls.
Fill each other's cup but drink not from one cup.
Give one another of your bread but eat not from the same loaf
Sing and dance together and be joyous, but let each one of you be alone,
Even as the strings of a lute are alone though they quiver with the same music.
Give your hearts, but not into each other's keeping.
For only the hand of Life can contain your hearts.
And stand together yet not too near together:
For the pillars of the temple stand apart,
And the oak tree and the cypress grow not in each other's shadow.
From India, Ahmadabad
dear vipul
its really beautiful and so true...
there are so many times that we search for a more better option even though we have the best with us....we need to learn where to stop searching for the best and be satisfied with what we have....like the boy in above story got a medium size corn and yet felt satisfied...
God bless..
sharon
From India, Mumbai
its really beautiful and so true...
there are so many times that we search for a more better option even though we have the best with us....we need to learn where to stop searching for the best and be satisfied with what we have....like the boy in above story got a medium size corn and yet felt satisfied...
God bless..
sharon
From India, Mumbai
Dear All;
Whats a marriage without love?? Its the only igredient that makes a marriage work and remain young. I will be celebrating my 28th Wedding anni shortly-trust me its love that makes us tick. Its love that makes you walk that extra step for your partner-its love that makes your wife the most beautiful, loving and caring woman in the world. Put a lots of love in the curry of life and see miracles happen.
Regards,
Colonel Jude Mayne
From India, Bangalore
Whats a marriage without love?? Its the only igredient that makes a marriage work and remain young. I will be celebrating my 28th Wedding anni shortly-trust me its love that makes us tick. Its love that makes you walk that extra step for your partner-its love that makes your wife the most beautiful, loving and caring woman in the world. Put a lots of love in the curry of life and see miracles happen.
Regards,
Colonel Jude Mayne
From India, Bangalore
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